Friday, December 26, 2008

Gram

December 26th is my grandmother's birthday so I wanted to take a minute and pay tribute to her memory with pictures and words.


Raymond and Jennie Phillips
This is a picture of my maternal grandparents. My grandfather died when I was little so I do not really remember him but my grandmother left an imprint on my heart and influenced my life.

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August 11, 1984 the day I married Doohickie. My Grandmother is between us. She gave us a gift that I still have. She gave us a large album filled with recipes that I still use to this day. My grandmother could cook and you always knew there would be something good to eat in her kitchen. I loved her homemade donuts and her pickles. I have never been able to get mine to taste like hers.

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I am not really putting the photos in a specific order anymore. The photos are really a way to pay tribute to this wonderful women. In the picture with my grandmother is her daughter, son-in-law and their two sons. She gave me my love of sewing and quilting. She also encouraged people when they were down or frustrated and to this day I still hear her voice and it usually comes when I need it most. I know it is her because no one else calls me "girly". My grandmother had grit but she was also as my father would put it a "true lady". She was not as Doohickie puts it "a priss" but she did not have a problem with my being one.

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Like my sister this photo is one I really love. It is of my Mom, my Grandmother, my oldest son and me. It was taken when son number 1 was four months old.

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This picture was taken at the same time and my sister is in this picture. I am not sure why my Mom did not stay in the picture.

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The one type of picture I do not have but would love is one of my grandmother when she was younger. One thing she did as she got older was to travel with the senior citizens group. She took many bus trips and she had great stories to share and she never failed to tell us about the food. I know this picture does not show any of that. It is just one of the memories that I have of her. She also had a charm braclet that I imagine was very heavy. It had charms of grandchildren, and charms from places she had been. Her children may have had charms as well I do not remember it that clearly.

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Gram celebrating a birthday.

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My mom with my sister's daughter and Gram. I'm not really sure when this picture was taken. What I do know is that my Grandmother loved her great-grandchildren and she was always happy to see them.

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My grandmother with most of her children. As usual someone was cutting up. It was probably one of the brothers because both of their faces are hiding.

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This is at one of the many gatherings that occured and continue to occur with extended family. My grandmother was the oldest sibling and even here she reigns supreme. Her brothers, sister-in-laws, daugher and great-neice gather round.

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I believe this was my grandmother's 80th birthday party. My aunt, brother and cousin are in the picture as well. She touched so many lives and we lost her a few short years later to breast cancer. So on this day I took a few minutes to remember a women that brought great joy to many lives. Gram had a knack for making everyone feel special and important. There are so many more stories I could share and who knows as I find more pictures I may post them and share more stories but for now I will close with this final thought. Happy Birthday Gram you are still loved and missed.

6 comments:

HeidiTri's said...

Very nice! You have a unique perspective from the rest of us, because you are the oldest Grandchild. I love some of the pictures!

PennyCandy said...

Thanks Heidi. I wasn't sure if I should do it or not because you had done one earlier in the month. If you want any of the pictures I can email them to you they have been scanned into the computer.

Michael said...

Thanks for sharing. Mom still has most of the photo albums. I try to scan in some pictures every time I go home.
It is unfortuate that the next generation will not get a chance to benefit directly from her wisdom. But we all carry a little of it with us to pass on.

PennyCandy said...

Mike;

I guess I'll have to bring a flash drive with me the next time I am home so I can download those pictures.

TC said...

This was super sweet and nice. Sounds like she was an amazing woman. Two of my grandparents passed away within the last five years, and I still have two living. I couldn't and still can't imagine life without them.

PennyCandy said...

TC that is so awesome that you still have two grandparents with you. I unfortunately I have none.